Eid morning arrives like a burst of light, carrying with it the laughter of children, the scent of brand new freshly ironed clothes, and henna. Homes glow with the cheer of eid, and tables are set with dishes prepared with care. The air hums with the echoes of takbeer, a symbol of celebration, gratitude and remembrance.
And yet, somewhere in the background, there stands you, mama, tired, but smiling. Hands, stained with the henna you so lovingly applied to your children's hands the night before, and same hands now prepare pots of food. Your eyes holding the quiet weight of everything it took to bring this moment to life.
To the mothers who create the joy of Eid but don’t always feel it themselves, this is for you.
To the mothers who stayed awake past midnight, ensuring every detail was perfect—the outfits ironed, the gifts wrapped, the home prepared with decorations, warmth and care.
To the mothers who held back tears while looking at the henna designs on tiny hands, remembering what Eid used to feel like before they became the ones responsible for making it special.
To the mothers who wake their families for Fajr, then rush to make sure everyone is dressed and fed before the Eid prayer, often forgetting to take a moment for themselves.
To the mothers who long for the days when Eid was simply a joy they received, before they were the ones who carried its weight.
You are seen. You are cherished. You are loved.
The beauty of motherhood often lies in the unseen, very silent sacrifices that shape the joy of your family. And though the weight of responsibility may feel heavy, know that the barakah of this work is immeasurable. For every effort, for every moment of exhaustion, for every unspoken dua whispered into the folds of your apron or that wrapper, there is reward with Allah.
So, dear mother, as you stand in the kitcheneashing up after guests or sit watching your children unwrap their gifts, take a deep breath.
Let the joy you’ve created also be yours. Let the warmth of gratitude surround you. And remember, you are a big part of the beauty of Eid itself.
May Allah bless you, reward you, and fill your heart with the same joy you so selflessly give to others. Ameen.
Eid Mubarak Mama!